Words and Tips of LOVE!!!

The year isn’t a month old but from the looks of it, it is going to be a year filled with something, something a lot of people have been talking about, something people have pondered on for so long and still have no answers for. Yes it is LOVE. Don’t worry, I’m not here to tell you that I have found a definition for what it really is because I don’t but I know that it is one of the most beautiful things in life and if you all know this, you would know that the best and beautiful things of the world can’t be seen or touched, it can only be felt by the heart.

Not being able to sleep, I decided to put together this note which talks about Love…I’m no shrink but I hope these words of mine and a few famous people makes you smile and see how bright tomorrow can be if you put your mind to it.

‘The story of Love is not important-what is important is that one is capable of Love. It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity.’ Helen Hayes.
Just like some say about money, they say love also makes the world go round but it doesn’t, it is actually what makes that ride of love worthwhile. The first mistake people often make when they fall in love or think they are in love is not being friends with their partners for any love which has no friendship as its base is like a mansion built on sand.

We as humans (not just the ladies now….ok guys ) always sit and complain about how we haven’t found the right one for us and by saying that, we become choosy with any guy that steps up to us or any girl who tries to make you see things the right way and for who she really is. Ladies then end up looking for that tall dark hunk with pink lips, well built, firm butt (oh come on ladies, you know you love to feel some form of meat on your man’s ass….I know I do *wink*...loll) and also with a full pocket. Guys never pay attention to the one with the right words in her mouth cos they know she aint lying but would rather follow the ones who lie,nag insanely and are clearly with them for what they have instead of who they really are. But do you know why I Love men? They always and somehow end up doing the right thing (not all though), they go back to the non nagging, down to earth lady that they pretended not to care about. That is why I say; when Love has gone round one circle, at the end of the day we always return to those who were there from the beginning, but bear in mind that that one person will not wait forever.

Love is such a beautiful thing, in the words of Pablo Picasso, ‘Love is the greatest refreshment in life’, but having your heart broken is one of the worst things that could ever happen to any human. You realize that Love is when someone takes your heart and shatters it but you still love them with the little pieces. ‘It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to Love someone. But it takes a lifetime to forget them.’ The pleasure of Love lasts for a moment but the pain lasts a life time. A lot of people, after having their hearts broken become very scared and want nothing to do with it but as it is written in the Bible, ‘There is no fear in Love, but perfect Love casteth out fear’ 1 John 4:18, so always bare in mind that there is someone out there for you, some one God has said you will end up with and live a happy life filled with joy and Love.

Love on its own is ‘bestowed as a gift-freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved, we love to love’, so lets learn not to worry about love but instead we should honor its coming with all our hearts. Learn to smile more often and not frown because you do not know who is falling in love with that smile :-).

I’ll bring this to an end by letting you know once again that Love is indeed beautiful and not a curse. If you’re in love with someone but all you seem to be getting back is pain and heartache, try not to fuss or nag too much but instead ask that person ‘if you love me let me know if not, please gently let me go’. In the words of my best friend Grace Harding, ‘Love is not a disease, so do not make yourself believe it is and in the process eat your heart out with lots of thinking.
Above all learn to turn to God in your time of need, no matter what it is and learn to be patient for he sees all, he knows all and will always be there.